Thousands of twenty-something single women are finding themselves bogged down with: Subconsciously Single By Choice Syndrome.
I was speaking with my buddy Robin, and this strange-but-not-so-strange phenomenon suddenly occurred to me. I think I'm on to something.
Those of us ladies who are single, who relentlessly complain about it, who are smart, ambitious, attractive, who can't seem to find a decent guy...but is it all so accurate? Are we finding decent guys? Perhaps we are. Let's say we like a guy, in fact, are crazy for a guy, and the minute that guy shows interest in us, we scurry like pigeons after a bum with bread. We freak. We find any little thing wrong with the seemingly once-perfect guy so as not to like him that much. The question we should be asking ourselves is: Are we single gals subconsciously making ourselves single?